This past week started with a bang (pun intended) as we went to a golf course right outside of the Rose Bowl in Pasadena to watch fireworks Sunday night. We grilled, played frisbee, soccer, etc. while we waited for the 9 o'clock show. And the wait was worth it: it was easily the best fireworks show I've ever seen!
Monday we began work at our second week's ministry site. This site was much closer (within view of the downtown skyscrapers), and it was only about a half-hour bus ride each way. We worked with First Evangelical Free Church of Los Angeles (a.k.a. EV Free) to put on a Vacation Bible School at an apartment complex several blocks away. A lady from the church helped us with planning and preparing, but the 6 of us on our team actually ran the VBS. We had about 25 kids come throughout the week, most of them from poor families with many brothers and sisters. We set up the VBS on a patch of grass outside the apartments, and there was a construction site across the street, which contributed a lot of extra noise. Almost all of the kids spoke English, but most spoke Spanish too, and most parents we met spoke only Spanish.
The VBS was Tuesday through Friday, so we spent Monday preparing, praying, and learning about the neighborhood. The pastor gave us a tour of the area that really opened my eyes to how people here really live and the difficult conditions that they face every day. For example, many families live in one-room apartments, since that's all they can afford, and many don't have a refrigerator, so they must go shopping almost every day for food. Tuesday we got to meet the kids for the first time, and many of them seemed to have a hard time trusting us. But as the week progressed, they became more and more attached to us (and vice versa), and we could see most of them were really hungry for attention and love. The apartments are only a few blocks away from the church, which host after-school programs and Sunday School for children just like them. But the sad thing is that most parents won't allow their kids to travel those few short blocks because the main road between them is an invisible boundary between gang territories. The kids have all seen violence, even just outside the apartments, and we were told that some of the kids have dealt with abusive relatives, too. It just broke my heart to see what these kids go through, and it humbled me to see the energy and excitement that they still have after all of that.
By the time we left on Friday, one of the families (with 4 or 5 kids) invited us in for dinner. This is one of 2 families from that apartment complex that currently are part of EV Free Church. Many of the other kids, followed us to the door of that family's apartment. Inside, there was one room and a kitchen. Bunkbeds were literally next to the table where we ate. They served us a delicious soup, which I am sure was going to be their dinner. We were all so humbled by their amazing hospitality.
Back at our home in Koreatown, we had a very unusual week. Monday night we had an amazing discussion about racial reconciliation that forced all of us to really stop and think about what preconceptions we have about people of other ethnicities. We looked at the way Jesus viewed those of other ethnicities, particularly a Samaritan woman in John 4. Tuesday night we had a great Bible study, looking at how the Bible talks about the causes of poverty. Our basic conclusion was that it's impossible to decide who or what has caused a person's poverty, especially without getting to know a person and getting to know their life's story.
Tuesday night after Bible study we received a big surprise: we were starting a "poverty simulation." I want to emphasize that we were completely safe through all of this, but it was an experience that taught me a lot about what homeless people and people in poverty go through on a daily basis. Tuesday night we were allowed to each pick 3 possessions from our bedrooms (plus the clothes we were wearing and our Bibles) and we were herded outside into the fenced-in parking lot behind our house. The ground was cold and hard, so we found cardboard boxes in the dumpster to sleep on for comfort. It was still uncomfortable and raining a bit, so by morning we were all very cold and very sore and many needed to use the bathroom (which was also not allowed during the night). Basically we were only allowed to enter the house during designated bathroom times and designated meal times. We were given $20 pretend money every night, with which we had to pay for meals, shelter, transportation, etc. There was a strong sense of community among the students, as we quickly pitched in to help each other cover costs rather than see each other suffer. I also quickly discovered that when money became short, hygiene was quickly sacrificed for more immediate needs like food and shelter.
We were woken up before dawn each morning, but the second night I was so cold that I barely slept at all but rather paced the parking lot to stay warm most of the night. We had to leave the house by about 6:30, which was well before the time were supposed to arrive at our ministry site. So we went to a nearby park and took naps. It was definitely difficult to continue to put 100% effort into our VBS when we were so lacking of food, sleep, and hygiene. On Thursday we received a "survival hunt" with a list of tasks to do after we left our ministry site. For example, one task was "Eat dinner." This was difficult because we weren't allowed to carry around any of our own money during the poverty simulation. We also were instructed to talk with a homeless person as a group. So we approached a homeless (we found out his name was Jay) who was as kind as anyone we've met in L.A. And before we left, he asked if we would like a couple of cans of food that he had with him. Before we left our ministry site that afternoon, I envisioned many possibilities of ways we could get food during the evening. None of those possibilities included receiving our dinner from a homeless man. We were all very humbled as we opened a can of creamed corn and a can of refried beans and ate the dinner Jay gave us.
Thursday night as we went to bed, the staff announced that we needed to turn in all of our possessions before bed, which for me was hard because my pillow was my most important possession at the time. I was debating whether or not to even try sleeping on the concrete without a pillow or to just pass the night sitting up. An hour later the staff came out to announce that the simulation was over! I went inside and took the most-appreciated shower I've taken in a long time. One of the lessons I learned from this was that we knew the simulation would last less than a week, so we knew that we only had to hold out for that long before being back in comfort again. Many of the people we interact with every day in the city go through situations harder than what we went through, and they have no end in sight to their difficulties.
Friday night we went to a baseball game at Dodger Stadium: Dodgers vs. the Chicago Cubs. The Dodgers won, but it was a close game. I tried a famous Dodger Dog (a fancy footlong hot dog), and it was good but not amazing. The park has a beautiful view out past centerfield, because it's built into a hillside somehow. Saturday we went to Venice Beach together, which has a boardwalk known for street shows, freak shows, vendors, and musclemen. We went to try to find and talk to people who were on the margins of that society, so to speak. Robbie and I talked for a long time with a girl who we saw sitting by herself underneath a tree crying.
We found out her name was Crystal, she was only 19, and she had been traveling with friends for about 6 months before somehow becoming separated from them in Los Angeles. She had no money, no cell phone, no one who wanted her anymore. We sat with her and shared with her that God loves her so much that He sent Jesus to die for her so she can be in a relationship with God. We gave her a little advice about the buses, Robbie gave her the name of a church in L.A. that would give her a meal and a place to sleep, and we gave her a few dollars to get started on the bus. I have no idea what happened with Crystal, but all I can do for her now is pray for her. And I would ask that you pray too for her and for the other people that we have met and talked with and learned from, but that I haven't named on my blog.
God has taught me much this past week, especially about humility. I'll write more when I can. Thanks for reading, and let me know if you have any questions!